Ok.
I have posted about our recent problems with NY DMV and an old citation that is not my DHs, but he is having to prove it isnt him....
So today I contacted my credit union and asked them to fax a copy of my February 2002 statement.
OMG
Whew....here is just a small recap of what I saw of my life in 2002:
The first clue...the statement was TEN PAGES LONG! EEK
The day before Valentines Day, I spent a total of $123.96 (this year I spent $2 on candy and wrote DH and DD3 a poem- which they enjoyed, DD3 kept hers.)
The weekend of the anniversary that we MET (huh?): $260 (this year we remembered...umm I think)
My lunches out with friends...over $200
(I go out once month for an average of $15 per month now)
I got $100 PER WEEK allowance. Mochas, pick-me-ups after a long day, birthday gifts bought at last minute, etc...(now I get $20 and many times it lasts all month.
I wont go into detail (cause Id cry tallying it) about the number of Target, Fred Meyer and Walmart trips I made...(one trip alone $195....oh how I wish I remembered what we spent that much on....)
Then there were all the credit card payments...but I made more than the minimum payment ...I just turned around and recharged anyways...
It only cost $22.50 to fill my car...now, its $34.50
This was an eye opening experience...
But I am proud that my statements now read like a book...every expense is budgeted for (even the unexpected) and it is only TWO PAGES.
Our monthly income is more than $2800 LESS than it was then...but yet, we are HAPPIER NOW.
This was a good reminder for me today that this decision (staying home) was the right one for us!!
What an EYE OPENER
June 24th, 2006 at 02:51 am
June 24th, 2006 at 02:58 am 1151114333
June 24th, 2006 at 03:22 am 1151115766
We have decided to write a statement that DH has NEVER been in NY, NEVER DRIVEN an 88 Pontiac with the plate number provided. We are also including a certifiation from his job that he was at work until 2am the day of the ticket...and back at work on the following Monday (so, physically impossible to have been there) and a certification from our insurance company that we were indeed insured in the state of Oregon when the ticket was issued (citation included NO INSURANCE)
Then, we will see what happens...if it is not dismissed, I am getting an atty.
Thanks for asking.
June 24th, 2006 at 05:41 am 1151124062
Glad you are so much more fulfilled now! Money can't buy love, although many try!
June 24th, 2006 at 03:17 pm 1151158630